The Best Way to Change a Neighborhood

Quick Take: When was the last time you felt truly connected to your neighbors? In Los Angeles, where fences are tall and everyone seems busy, creating community feels harder than ever. Yet sometimes, the simplest ideas spark the biggest change. What if transforming your neighborhood started with just one table, a bottle of wine, and an open invitation?

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Why Community Connection Matters

Los Angeles has long been a city of reinvention. But after years of wildfires, Covid isolation, and rising distrust, many neighborhoods have grown quieter, more fragmented.

Communities thrive when people actually know each other. Trust is built through presence, not suspicion. When neighbors come together, cities feel smaller in the best way.

The Inspiration Behind La Dolce Vita

Relocating from London and New York, I was surprised that in a city with perfect weather, more people were not eating and drinking outdoors together. In Europe, it is second nature. Tables spill into the streets, and conversations flow until sunset.

So my wife Meg and I decided to bring that spirit here. We created La Dolce Vita, which translates to The Good Life, a neighborhood event that blends food, wine, music, and conversation, hosted right in the communities where we work.

The idea came from Amsterdam, where neighbors bring chairs, candles, and meals into the street, sharing time together without an agenda.

How One Evening Changed a Neighborhood

Last Thursday in Beachwood Canyon, we tried it. We set a table, poured some wine, and played music.

By sundown, sixty guests had joined. Some wandered over from evening walks, curious. Within an hour, the tables were full. Candles flickered, glasses clinked, laughter carried up the hill.

Before the night ended, neighbors were already planning to keep it going every two weeks, even after the home we hosted from sells. That is the power of simple connection.

The Bigger Picture: Why We Do This

When people ask, “Why host something like this? What do you get out of it?” the answer is simple.

Real estate is an industry where trust is at an all-time low. Meg and I want to change that. We show up as neighbors first, not salespeople.

La Dolce Vita is not about selling homes. It is about opening doors for conversations, building trust, and sparking the kind of neighborhoods where people know each other’s names.

And here is the irony: when you give something to the community, it often comes back around. Guests that night spread word about the home long before it officially hit the market. No ad budget could buy that kind of reach.

How You Can Bring This to Your Street

The formula is simple:

  • A table and chairs

  • Good food and wine

  • Music and candles

  • An open invitation

It starts small, but grows into something bigger. As my father always said, when people break bread together, they stay together.

If you would like a La Dolce Vita gathering in your neighborhood, reach out. We would love to help spark it.

FAQs

  • Shared meals create trust, break down barriers, and open conversations that would not happen otherwise. Over time, those connections transform how neighbors support each other.

  • No. The point is simplicity. A table, chairs, candles, and an open invitation are enough to get started. It is more about presence than production.

  • After years of disconnection, trust in neighborhoods and institutions has declined. Community events help rebuild the social fabric and create resilience against future challenges.

  • Indirectly, yes. When neighbors feel good about their community, they share stories, invite friends, and spread word of mouth about homes for sale. But the primary goal is connection, not marketing.

  • Start small. Invite a few neighbors to sit outside, share food, and keep it consistent. Over time, it will grow naturally as others join in. Or, want to enjoy it hassle free? Give us a call and we’ll take care of everything.

Thinking about selling and want your home to be the next La Dolce Vita stage?

Schedule a quick call with us to see how we can bring this to your street. Book a call .

Not selling, just want to join the fun? We’ll save you a seat at our next table — let us know and we’ll add you to the list.

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Matthew Hoult

Filmmaker, Director and Photographer.

http://matthewhoult.com
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